While I was scrolling Instagram earlier today, I ran across a picture of Tia Mowry taking a selfie in the mirror wearing her hair pulled back in a ponytail. Before I even read the caption, I was thinking ‘I’ve never seen Tia with her hair pulled back like that. Wonder what made her pull it back.’
For some reason without even thinking or looking at her attire, I thought maybe she had just come from working out or something, but once I really looked at the picture, I could tell she was headed out. By the way she was dressed, I could tell she was going out with the Mister after reading the caption which read:
He likes it pulled back so pulled back it is:)
This got me to thinking about just how far would I or have I gone to please my man. As women, we are always under the microscope. People look at us as if we’re supposed to always be on top of our game and never have an off day. When it comes to pleasing our man, most of us will do just about anything to make sure he keeps his mind focused on us and won’t stray.
In the past, I, too, have worn my hair different ways, dressed different and even went without makeup to please my man, but did that really keep him… Ummm, not at all. To be honest, you can change what ever you want about yourself trying to keep a man, but if he doesn’t want to stay, he won’t.
Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with changing up your look to something your man enjoys seeing, but also keep in mind that it’s all up to that man whether he stays or not. I say you do whatever you have to to make sure your man stays focused on you and that you’re on his mind 247… hell 25/8 if you will because there is always some other chick out there lurking.
Changing your look for your man can be a way of him telling you that this is how he’s the most attracted to you. The guy I’m seeing now likes me more in my natural state, no makeup or anything, and that’s fine with me because at least he knows what I look like without it and loves me just that way.
One thing I can say about a man is that he will talk to you and send you signs about certain things but it’s up to us to listen. We have to learn to be more receptive and not think he’s necessarily trying to change us. Tia’s husband likes to see her with her hair pulled back more than likely so he can see her whole face. I think that is rather sweet.
How far would you go to please your man? What are some of the things you have changed about your appearance at your man’s request???
Photo: Tia Mowry Instagram
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