Main Chick Vs. Side Chick: Who’s Really Winning???
This whole main chick vs side chick thing has been going on since the beginning of time and sadly side chicks (and dudes) aren’t going anywhere anytime soon. As long as there’s someone willing to cheat, you’re going to have a side kick, but my question is, who’s really winning?
Reality TV has really brought this whole “side chick” thing to the forefront and are saying they’re the ones really winning. One one hand, I guess you really could say they’re winning because they still get the man, but don’t have the full responsibility of being his woman.
I mean think about it. As a side chick, all you really have to do is fuck him and be his arm candy for however much free time he has. Side chick gets her benefits by spending time with him in exchange for paying a bill or two, gifts etc. I personally know of a side chick who pretty much got everything the wife got. She got the same type of car, house and all, but didn’t have to spend as much time or have full responsibility of being his wife.
Meanwhile, his wife/main chick not only has to fuck him, but she has the full responsibility of being his woman. Cooking, cleaning, making sure the bills are paid and taking care of the kids if they have any. Making appearances at family functions, funerals, etc. So, of course, you would look at it like the side chick is winning because she doesn’t have to do all that.
Well, if the main chick is smart enough, she’ll make sure she’s always winning regardless of what her “man” is doing. She’ll make sure that she has access everything he has. When I say access, I mean paperwork in place for the “just in case” something were to ever happen to him.
If you’re in a relationship with a man longer than a year, you need to make sure that you won’t be left high and dry in case something happens to him. Let’s face it, when you’re in a relationship with a man for a certain period of time, you depend on him financially. Now, if this sucker is going to make a fool of you and cheat, at least have all your ducks in a row for that “just in case”.
Honestly, all this main chick vs side chick stuff is getting a little out of hand when it comes to who’s winning or not. The only one winning in the situation is the fucker that has you two battling over him (or her in some cases). There are certain things in life that shouldn’t be shared, for me a mate is one. Damn a title if I’m having to share you.
The reason I say the person being shared is winning is because they get the best of both worlds and no blame. Most times, the chicks are the ones going back and forth trying to say who’s getting what. Who makes him feel better or does more for him all the while he’s sitting back like a phat mack soaking it all up.
Sooooooo… main chick and side chick, you’re both losing because the man you’re fighting over wins. He’s the real MVP because not only has he been playing you both, but he’s been playing you all against each other as well. Push comes to shove, he’ll replace you both!