The T-Spot

The T-Spot: Mourning The Relationship

After I decided to leave Mista, there were so many times I wanted to go back to him even after all the hurt, heartache and pain because I just couldn’t fathom being alone again. Being without him just didn’t seem right. Just didn’t seem like it was supposed to be this way. I’m really a […]

The T-Spot: Fear Of Starting Over

I walked out on mista back in May 2011 and had no idea what I was going to do next. When I got married, I thought it would be for life, I didn’t think I would have to be alone again, but here I was about to turn 30 and be single again. Although we […]

The T-Spot: Getting Back To The Love

It took me a long time to get over the hurt from finding out mista had another child and most of all it stripped me of my dreams of having a family with the love of my life. I tried everything you can think of possible to get over it, but I just couldn’t. Everything […]

The T-Spot: The Honeymoon Is Over

Just barely a year after being married, I had a bomb dropped on me when I found out mista had a child he didn’t tell me about. More than anything, it’s the way I found out that really got me. Being the good wife that I was, I used to always make sure that his […]

The T-Spot: When We First Met

When I first thought about starting this series, I was very hesitant about being so transparent because normally I don’t share a lot about myself even to family and friends. Then I figured ‘what the hey’ my story could help somebody. Now the question is: where do I start? Well, why not just start from […]

TractHer TrailHer’s New Blog Series — The T-Spot is always trying to think of ways to keep our readers interested and engaged in our topics so we are starting a new blog series called “The T-Spot.” The T-Spot is a new series that will discuss the different stages of a woman as she goes through the walks of life as it relates […]