Women love to talk, especially when they’re alone with other women with whom they feel comfortable with and somehow the conversations typically end up with talks about men, husbands. Along with the good talks about husbands or significant others also come with the bad or things most women say their husband don’t do. Here are the top 10 complaints about husbands:
Cleaning. This is a big one here. Many women complain that they take on the full load of cleaning because they are frustrated with how their husband cleans. Most women say they just clean after learning their spouse is either horrible at it, pretends they don’t know how to clean, or just don’t care to clean because they old school and feel that’s “woman’s work”.
Cooking. Now this is not all husbands because some actually enjoy cooking and they wife gets to sit back on this one, but there are many women who lack a husband that really knows what he’s doing in the kitchen. Even when a husband may be the better cook, the woman typically have the leading role in cooking maybe due to work schedules.
Appointments. What appointment? A question most men will surely ask. Doctors appointments, dentist appointments, teacher conferences, are a few appointments that may need to be scheduled for families with children and even for self. Appointment scheduling is usually a task many wives just take over, not even allowing her husband to share in on the burden.
Laundry. If it’s not heading to the cleaners I can’t do laundry for my husband and the entire family. Many women are not only responsible for laundry (washing, folding, and putting away the clothes) for herself and little ones but her husband as well. This is another task that men pretend to have little to no knowledge in so that they don’t have to have the responsibility of doing their own laundry and laundry for the kids they may have.
Money. That’s why most modern women work, because husbands just don’t make enough money to carry the financial burden of the household, the wife and her financial needs, the kids (if any) and their extra curricular activities.
Quality Time. Because of the above (money), many men take the role of working more than one job or working more hours at their current job to make ends meet. Which leaves less time for men to spend with their wife and kids.
Communication. Talk to everyone but you. Sounds familiar? Most marriages lack communication, which surprises many how people stay married. Many women and men have so much to say to others about their spouse but rarely have the courage or know how to go and communicate with their spouse. Talking to others never really help your situation, it’s talking with your spouse that does.
Interest. I often witness women in one place and their husband in another and I wonder why are they together but yet always apart. Many women (men too) say their husband don’t like to do the same things they do or takes little to no interest in doing it just to make his the wife happy. Why is there such a lack of interest? What are you interested in then? It has to be something.
Grocery Shop. Men love to eat, but have him shop for it and cook it too. That rarely happens. Most women do the cleaning, cooking, food prep and grocery shopping. Many actually don’t like their husbands to grocery shop because they act as if they don’t know what to buy, don’t look for savings, and at times can’t even follow a grocery list. Hmmm.
Show Emotions. Last but not least, most women only see one emotional side of their husband and that is anger. Why is this though? Why don’t husbands feel they can be vulnerable with their wives without wives without compromising their manhood?
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